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Stop Telling Me What To Do

How do you react/respond when someone tells you what to do? Drea and Jason talk about unsolicited versus solicited advice, their (totally biased) opinions and why some people feel compelled to tell others what they should do.

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Narcissism Take 2

Continued discussion of narcissism and other personality disorders. Less personal, more psycho educational. Always fun and important, but mostly filled with love.

Jason and Drea

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Dating Narcissists

Episode includes psychoeducation regarding NPD, one woman’s experience engaging consistently with those suffering from the disorder and what you can do if you happen to love narcissists.

What it looks like, what it feels like, and what not to do.

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Casual Sex vs. Relationship

Michael and Drea process what it's like to "meet" on a dating app, connect on significant levels yet have fundamentally differing goals.

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Taking care of someone who did not take care of you

I finally got her! Stephanie, therapist and former (self acknowledged) client, talks about understanding, surviving, reconciling, and ultimately accepting her Borderline mother./daughter dynamic (Stephanie is the daughter). PLEASE listen to this episode, we cover a lot of ground. You will learn about BPD and hear how this incredible human processed (and is still processing) loss, dealt with family, guilt and many other depleting emotions. Yes, there is hope.

Stephanie and Drea

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Dating App "Relationships"

Drea and Matt explore the way they encountered one another and what has happened since then, in a very short period of time. Having never met in person, significant discussions have turned into this podcast recording. Did I mention that there is a part involving a micro penis? BUT NOT HIS. Listen for some very cool exploration into a dynamic that has had misunderstanding, clarity and both of them looking deeper into the selves that are ultimately hoping to find love….somewhere.

with Matthew Walker

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Her Son's Post HS Future

Drea and her 7th grade best friend, Crista, go on a journey. We should all be so lucky to have a friend, or a mom, like her.

with Crista and Drea

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You Deplete Me: Anxieties and Insecurities

Listen as Drea talks to a very special person in her life, the best friend of her late husband. Jason shares about what it’s like to live with anxiety and insecurity, and what he does to make the world a better place.

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